Do u bully him? Check off the situations that would make you mad enough to yell at ur guy. (be honest! ) If u checked 0-2 u r cool. ur a total conflict avoider. If u checked 3-5 ur simmering. It takes something pretty big 4 u 2 lose ur temper. If u checked 6-8 ur boiling over. If ur always yellin @ him, he'll feel like he cant do anything rite and eventually will give up.