Naming Shtuff

So, I have this "friend" (cuz u will NEVER have a true friend sad as it is, only close ones, cuz in this world its every dude/chick for themselves) that has SO much trouble naming stuff 4 wat they r. makin luv (and the other word we r not allowed 2 use on here, pht!) 4 example, or her crushe's name or even MY crushe's name! or the word virginity. she just wont say them...and other stuff 2! i dont get it!