What sort of signifigant other are you?

1. Your significant other is up set about something that went wrong through out the day. You ask him what is wrong and they say "I don't want to talk about it right now." You respond by___.

• Yelling "You had better tell me now or ____!"
• o Put your hand on his shoulder, and look at them and tell them it's okay and that you will be there when and if they are ready to talk, and let them know that you love them.
• Smart off and say "fine" in a disapproving way
• Get mad and say "Well I tell you every thing and bla bla bla" or "Your hiding something!"

Your significant other tells you that they will call you later, but never do. You_____.

• o Call back every five minutes, about to explode with anger and jealousy
• Do nothing, they probably got caught up in something or just forgot... but you call once or twice if you're worried something bad happened.
• Get a hold of them an hour later and gripe about it.
• Accuse them of cheating, not loving you, or you break up with them.

Your significant other wants to go out with their friends that they haven't seen in ages, and they invite you to tag along; although you two did have a dinner plan made. You_______.

• Tell your partner no flat out.
• Tell your partner that if they go it's over.
• Gripe about it for a while. Stay home and give them the silent treatment when they get back.
• o Go with them, hey its been a while since they've seen their friends and they see you a lot. Also you would like to know their friends, they probably have a lot of fun stories to tell about your s/o.

Your significant other looses someone close to them. You_____.

• Make the whole situation about you, and over look your S/O.
• Comfort your s/o the best way you know how, and if they want space to themselves for grief you understand and give that space.
• Tell them to just forget about it.
• o Keep bringing the subject up over and over, even though your s/o doesn't feel up for the conversation.

You and your significant other get in to a pretty big argument. How did it go?

• You kept dragging the problem out in the wrong times.
• o You said what you needed to after thinking about your word choice and walked away, to cool off, then worked it out later and apologized for being hateful.
• Broke up with them.
• Threw your hands up and said I’m sorry every thing is my fault and begged for forgiveness

You notice that your significant other has gained a little bit of weight, although it's far from being a health concern. More like the over the holidays weight gain thing. You_____.

• Make jokes about your s/o about the extra weight.
• o Tell them flat out that they've gained a few pounds and need to loose it fast.
• Give them nothing but salad, and if you go out you gripe if they order anything other than rabbit food.
• o Do nothing, you've gained a little too... but if it was a health concern you would definitely let your partner know that you are concerned about their health and offer to help.

Your significant other has seemed irritated all day, although you didn't do anything wrong you______.

• Tell your partner they need to straighten up their act
• o Ask them calmly if something is bothering them, or if they had a bad day.
• Start an argument
• Are hateful back.

Your significant other asks for some alone time to unwind. You respond by____.

• Telling them that you will give them all the alone time that they need, and find something to entertain your self.
• Tell your partner to get out for good.
• Tell them that they can have alone time with you. Or you tell them they get enough alone time elsewhere.
• o Get mad, and give them the silent treatment. Or you cry about it and ask why they don’t love you any more, or think that its something that you did.

Your significant other's parents are coming over for dinner, but you don’t particularly like them. You_____.