Whay are you a lesbian/bisexual?

Why are you a lesbian/bisexual?

Please select all that apply.

• Boys are annoying.
• I'm just more attracted to girls.
• I don't know!
• I don't want to have IT with a man.
• I've already had IT with a woman.
• I wasn't untill recently, so i'm not sure.
• Other. (cmt let me know)

Have you told your family? (if so, leave me a cmt telling me how you did.)

• No, and I won't. Ever.
• No, but i'm going to at some point.
• Yes, and they don't mind.
• Yes, and they weren't so happy. ='(
• They found out on their own.
• Other. (comment let me know)

If you have, why did you tell them?

• I wanted to be honest.
• I figured 'they already knew, so why not just let the cat out of the bag?'
• I just blurted it out.
• They caught me kissing/having IT with/dating a girl.
• Somebody knew and told them or hinted to them.
• Other (cmt let me know)
• I havn't told them.

If you havn't told them, why not?

• I'm afraid they might be mad at me.
• Its embaressing!
• I just recently found out myself, so I'm not really sure.
• I just want to keep it a secret.
• I know my family dislikes gay/lesbian people.
• Im afraid they will not take me seriously.
• I don't want them to try and change my mind.
• I've told them.

DOes it frustrate you when people tell you you are wrong, you shouldn't be a lesbian/bisexual.

• Yes! I hate when they judge me! It's not like it changes who I am!
• No, Im not really offended.
• Im undecided.
• No one has told me this.
• Yes, but not alot. I just walk it off.
• No, but I can understand why some people would be.
• Not usually, only certain people just piss me off.
• Other.

Does it make you uncomfortable or shy when you talk about gays or lesbians?

• No way! I am proud!
• No, not really.
• Yes, I don't usually take part in those convo's.
• It only upsets me when people talk about it like it is a bad thing.
• Only a few things make me feel wierd..
• Yes, i feel like i'm doing something wrong, and they [whoever is talking about it] is guilting me.
• Yes, but I don't understand why.
• Other.

Would you ever consider trying to have IT with a male?

• No. They just creep me out.
• I guess. I'd prefer a woman though.
• Totally. Expiramentation, anyone?
• I already have; didn't like it.
• uh, thats why i'm bi. I like girls AND guys.
• Only if I was strapped down and had absolutly no other choice. (thats a def no.)

Does being lez/bi make you feel any less feminine?

• Yea, I act more like a guy than a straight girl is.
• No, im still really girly.
• I have a mixture of a girly-girl and a guy.
• I don't really notice a difference.
• Yea, but i can still act like a girl at times.
• No; I don't understand why being a lesbian sends out the message that we are less feminine.

Do you stand strong for lesbians everywhere?

• What?
• Yes, If you screw with one, we all attack.
• Sorta.
• No. My lesbian self is a secret!
• yes, i want to show the world that we should not be considered outsiders.
• mmmmmm, i dont know?