SHOULD THE WOMAN AND CHILDREN TAKE THE MANS SURNAME AFTER MARRIAGE?

Should the woman take the mans name after marriage?Reasons yes.
If you kill the best features of any gender, the balance of the relationship is ruined. Making the man take the woman's last name, is like letting him know "you are the woman now!" Traditional values are well encoded in our minds. Just like we don't go out naked or don't eat from the floor.
You want to start a new life with the man but you wont anyone to know, its like a slap in the face for the man!