HELP ME PLEASE : Friend girl problems:(
Okay so I'm having problems with my friend and please comment its really bugging me :(
Okay I'm Kim and my friend is Olivia just saying so you dont get confused. A while back my friend was friends with Olivia, then i became friends with her too. But at first i didnt really like her and she felt the same about me. A short time after that my friend moved away. But by then i had become friends with the people Olivia hung out with and Olivia. So i continued sitting by them. Me and Olivia were good friends. Close friends. BEST friends. She called me everyday and we talked and i talked to her brother and sister and me and her sister were kinda close too.
My friend moved back but that didnt affect olivia and I's friendship THAT much. Except Olivia always wanted to talk to my friend and sit by her and stuff i was ok with that i mean: she just moved back and i always talked to Olivia on the phone. Then i started getting annoyed. Olivia :just like EVERYBODY else in the FA- REAKING world: started not listening when i was talking. That mad me really upset but she still called me which was good.
Olivia is kind of a moody person. But im not really judgemental so i dont care. Eventually she stopped calling me just a couple months after my friend came back. I have a life i wasnt too upset. Then i accidentally told two things she said to me to someone else and it was like the end of the world. It wasnt freakin bad or anything. Olivia just overreacted. But it was her WHOLE FAMILY!! Her sister started being a jerk to me and that hurt. That hurt ALOT. Her brother who i dont like anymore anyway ignored me too. I'm an emotional person and i try to be nice change is hard for me. So that tore me APART. I did EVERYTHING i could to say im sorry. I wrote her a frikin note!! A week or two of that she "forgave" me.
Then my birthday party. I was going bowling and she likes bowling. She was invited but she was gonna hang out with my friend (who was also invited)
instead. Then my friend cancelled and olivia found someone else to hang out
with. They also cancelled (karma). I didnt understand. But i had fun anyway my other friends were there.
My guy friend hates her while fam. I was on the phone with her one day and he started swearing at her and her family. She recorded it and took it to the principal. I am no longer allowed to hang out with him. And i stuck up for her and her sis and bro like i always do when people talk bad about her (alot) and she STILL got mad at me and her sister.
I was sooo depressed. Now she doesnt call me unless she needs answers from my home work and she would choose anyone over me i havent been to her house and everyone told me what she said about me behind my back. That hurt she called me a giant and she knows how when people says stuff about me it gets to me. I'm like the only one who likes her and im a better friend then them and she doesnt even like me. Idk why. Can someone help me?
Anyone?
My friend moved back but that didnt affect olivia and I's friendship THAT much. Except Olivia always wanted to talk to my friend and sit by her and stuff i was ok with that i mean: she just moved back and i always talked to Olivia on the phone. Then i started getting annoyed. Olivia :just like EVERYBODY else in the FA- REAKING world: started not listening when i was talking. That mad me really upset but she still called me which was good.
Olivia is kind of a moody person. But im not really judgemental so i dont care. Eventually she stopped calling me just a couple months after my friend came back. I have a life i wasnt too upset. Then i accidentally told two things she said to me to someone else and it was like the end of the world. It wasnt freakin bad or anything. Olivia just overreacted. But it was her WHOLE FAMILY!! Her sister started being a jerk to me and that hurt. That hurt ALOT. Her brother who i dont like anymore anyway ignored me too. I'm an emotional person and i try to be nice change is hard for me. So that tore me APART. I did EVERYTHING i could to say im sorry. I wrote her a frikin note!! A week or two of that she "forgave" me.
Then my birthday party. I was going bowling and she likes bowling. She was invited but she was gonna hang out with my friend (who was also invited)
instead. Then my friend cancelled and olivia found someone else to hang out
with. They also cancelled (karma). I didnt understand. But i had fun anyway my other friends were there.
My guy friend hates her while fam. I was on the phone with her one day and he started swearing at her and her family. She recorded it and took it to the principal. I am no longer allowed to hang out with him. And i stuck up for her and her sis and bro like i always do when people talk bad about her (alot) and she STILL got mad at me and her sister.
I was sooo depressed. Now she doesnt call me unless she needs answers from my home work and she would choose anyone over me i havent been to her house and everyone told me what she said about me behind my back. That hurt she called me a giant and she knows how when people says stuff about me it gets to me. I'm like the only one who likes her and im a better friend then them and she doesnt even like me. Idk why. Can someone help me?
Anyone?
5 Comments
Hey Kim. First of all i'm sorry for what happened, its not good that Olivia let you down. From what you have said it sounds like she doesnt have many friends, and she needs a good friend like you (even if she doesnt know it). All you can do is be patient, and be there for her like you have been. You can always message me if you are feeling down ok?
Can do :)
Hey :) If Olivia is acting rude towards you, then she's not a true friend. A true friend would forgive you quickly, wouldn't leave you, and wouldn't back stab you. So just forget about her. If she wants you as a friend again, then give her another chance :).
i agree
Thanks guys:) I'm gladyou commented:)