HELP LILA! This is her sister Lindsay :(
Please help!!!
Ok, so you guys don't know me, obviously, but my name is Lindsay and I'm Lila's sister. I'm four years older than her, so I'm 24. I know you guys probably don't care, but PLEASE keep reading.
Lila is 20, and she just broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years, James (obviously NOT from BTR) yesterday after they got in this HUGEEE fight. Anyways, she just back from the doctor's this morning, and she found out she is PREGNANT. Yeah, she was a wreck this morning when she came home to our apartment.
She called our parents over and told them and they are ABSOLUTELY FURIOUS! Literally, my mom told her she was disgusting and that she never wanted to see her again. My dad just kind of looked at her and said, "What a mess." She got REALLY upset so she called James and he said that he would be a part of the baby's life but he doesn't want to get back together. Lila is RIDICULOUSLY HURT by everything that happened today and I don't know what I should do. I'm 24 and I don't have children but I know I should be there for Lila I just don't know about our parents :( I know most of you don't care but PLEASE HELP HER!!! She really needs all the support she can get right now. She says she would answer people's questions if you have any but she might not be on for a while so I'm kind of "taking over" for now. But if you have any questions/comments/concerns PLEASE SHARE. Thank you so much.
-Lindsay
Lila is 20, and she just broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years, James (obviously NOT from BTR) yesterday after they got in this HUGEEE fight. Anyways, she just back from the doctor's this morning, and she found out she is PREGNANT. Yeah, she was a wreck this morning when she came home to our apartment.
She called our parents over and told them and they are ABSOLUTELY FURIOUS! Literally, my mom told her she was disgusting and that she never wanted to see her again. My dad just kind of looked at her and said, "What a mess." She got REALLY upset so she called James and he said that he would be a part of the baby's life but he doesn't want to get back together. Lila is RIDICULOUSLY HURT by everything that happened today and I don't know what I should do. I'm 24 and I don't have children but I know I should be there for Lila I just don't know about our parents :( I know most of you don't care but PLEASE HELP HER!!! She really needs all the support she can get right now. She says she would answer people's questions if you have any but she might not be on for a while so I'm kind of "taking over" for now. But if you have any questions/comments/concerns PLEASE SHARE. Thank you so much.
-Lindsay
7 Comments
Man her x is an a-hole. At leas the's willing to be apart of the baby's life. I'm sorry your parents reacted so harshly. Maybe they'll come around. Congrates to your sister though.
Sorry a pessimist trying to do a optimist's job.
I know, my parents didn't really like James which is why I think they're so mad but she says thanks alot :)
Omg...
i hope everything ends up working out. sorry i don't have any advice or anything.
our parents dont sound like good parents........ and i hope everything will be ok in the end.. but i dont really have any advice
Yeah, I've always had a pretty bad relationship with them but our mom was Lila's idol so it's really sad :(
man, if my mom was gonna disown my sis just because she got pregnat in a FREAK ACCIDENT i mean is not like lila was TRYING to have a baby or anything anyway id be like homicidal if my mom did somthin like that. also at leaast this didnt happen when she was like 16 or 17. i hope everything turns out and lilas relationship w/ her mom comes out intact or they dont hate each other. and th ex is a long line of curse words i mean rlly??? and i hope the babys ok and everything GOOD LUCK!!