You're Beautiful. Don't You Forget That.

There was once a forest, full of little animals, who all gathered at a certain field to converse with one another. One day, a very pretty butterfly said to the Fox, "I'm as pretty as the stars that shine in the sky and as radiant as the sun, but you're dull and ugly, you don't compare to me." The fox went home frowning, thinking she was ugly and worthless. Later that day, the Fox returned to the field and saw the ladybug. The Fox envied the ladybug for being so pretty and felt so bad because she was so unattractive. So the Fox said to the ladybug, "You're very lucky you're beautiful, I don't like how I look, the butterfly said I looked ugly, and I do." The ladybug responded. , "Fox, who is the butterfly to tell you that you are ugly? I think you're beautiful. The butterfly is only selfish and shallow, she only sees outside beauty. But you are a better person in the inside, you are kind and wonderful and she isn't. You have it better, you're beautiful and she can't do anything to change it." With that the ladybug disappeared and the Fox suddenly felt better because someone cared about her. Fox looked at the butterfly, young and foolish. The Fox smiled and walked away, she wasn't worthless after all.

There is always a point in your life when you feel unloved, alone, and worthless. But the truth is that there is always someone out there itching to tell you how much they love you. Don't change yourself to be a butterfly. Learn from your faults and stay a Fox. Someone just told you you're ugly? Inside their really sitting behind layers of makeup and hair gell feeling uglier themselves. You're unique, natural, and perfect just the way you are now. Who cares what others think? You're you. You're who you want to be. Don't change that and ignore everyone who thinks otherwise.

Struggling with weight, bullemia/anorexia? Being as skinny as a pole isn't good for you. Maybe you're a little plump, that's just the way you we're built and that doesn't mean your a horrible person. Don't beat yourself up, your friends in life will like you just the way you are and won't pressure you to change. Trying to regurgitate your food doesn't help either. You're only harming your body. Did you know that if you starve yourself your body will immediately store up fat to keep you alive? Yeah, that means that when you vomit up your food or you don't eat at all, you're really not losing any fat, just gaining some. Calm down and look at yourself clearly. Ask yourself if your weight is actually unhealthy or just natural. If it's you determine it's unhealthy, then have your doctor deal with that. But if you can't find any valid reason other than you want to look thin than stop obessing over it. Even though you're probably a complete stranger, I love you just the way you are.

Dealing with suicidal thoughts and or bullies? Killing yourself is never the answer. Its more of a selfish thing, seems like an easy way for you to escape, but it will only hurt all your friends and family. Bullies don't know crap. People who are bullies are most likely molested or mentally retarded. So don't pay attention to that, people forget that their words hurt. Confide always in God, who will always help.

I highly recommend watching this video, its truly wonderful.Shane Dawson has dealt with bullying himself, and he has a special message for you. Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OiBML7eyKDs