I really need to vent right now...
I know a lot of you really won't care about my problems, but I just really need to say something or else I might explode.
Okay, so my problem is completely revolving around my little brother. First, let me explain something: my little brother and I are constantly fighting, and he always looks for that one thing that will do the most damage to my ego. Basically it's like having a bully who lives with you all the time, and is younger than you, and hates your guts for real. In the past few months it's gotten so bad that whenever I get to my house I just go and hide out in my room all night so that I won't see him. It used to be so simple to get away during the day since we went to different schools, but now it's summer so I see him practically all day.
I am just so sick and tired of him constantly making fun of me, and pointing out my bad traits like I don't already see them.
There have been a lot of incidents in the past two days that really pushed me over the edge, and actually almost made me cry.
Like today we were washing the dishes, and I was singing along to price tag by Jessie J, and we was listening not really doing anything. Then at the very end of the song he just starts ranting on and on about how I stink at life.
"y'know, that song actually isn't that bad when she sings it, but when you do it just butchers it!" and "I don't get why you even try R.J., you're so bad at writing and art! You'll never even get close to being an author or artist!" or "R.J., you're so freaking ugly, no guy is ever gonna like you. You'll just be one of those old ladies who lives alone forever and no one ever visits!" it just goes on and on like that every time I get close to him, so I just ended up staying away. Its making my mom miserable because I never come downstairs except for dinner, and I never bring friends over because I know he's just going to talk about embarrassing things. He's just a vandalizing, stealing, dream-crushing, idiot and I can't stand it anymore! :'( I wish he'd just leave me alone.
I'm sorry you had to read all that, I just really had to let it all out. Thanks for listening to my problem, and if you read this, you are a great friend, and just know that I'm really grateful. :')
Okay, so my problem is completely revolving around my little brother. First, let me explain something: my little brother and I are constantly fighting, and he always looks for that one thing that will do the most damage to my ego. Basically it's like having a bully who lives with you all the time, and is younger than you, and hates your guts for real. In the past few months it's gotten so bad that whenever I get to my house I just go and hide out in my room all night so that I won't see him. It used to be so simple to get away during the day since we went to different schools, but now it's summer so I see him practically all day.
I am just so sick and tired of him constantly making fun of me, and pointing out my bad traits like I don't already see them.
There have been a lot of incidents in the past two days that really pushed me over the edge, and actually almost made me cry.
Like today we were washing the dishes, and I was singing along to price tag by Jessie J, and we was listening not really doing anything. Then at the very end of the song he just starts ranting on and on about how I stink at life.
"y'know, that song actually isn't that bad when she sings it, but when you do it just butchers it!" and "I don't get why you even try R.J., you're so bad at writing and art! You'll never even get close to being an author or artist!" or "R.J., you're so freaking ugly, no guy is ever gonna like you. You'll just be one of those old ladies who lives alone forever and no one ever visits!" it just goes on and on like that every time I get close to him, so I just ended up staying away. Its making my mom miserable because I never come downstairs except for dinner, and I never bring friends over because I know he's just going to talk about embarrassing things. He's just a vandalizing, stealing, dream-crushing, idiot and I can't stand it anymore! :'( I wish he'd just leave me alone.
I'm sorry you had to read all that, I just really had to let it all out. Thanks for listening to my problem, and if you read this, you are a great friend, and just know that I'm really grateful. :')
39 Comments
your brother sounds like the male version of a bi/tch!! you're awesome at writing btw!! :D
I have a little brothe myself girly, haha. Well anways he doesn't sound very nice maybe you should tell your Mom, aor just tell him you don't like the way he treats you. If neither of those work just scream "Maxi Pad" and he'll run away :D. I hope I helped
hahaha! :D definitely a good way to get rid of an annoying guy!
Aww! That sucks! Throw him a bloody tampon. I almost did that to my brother.
Point one girl -- you rule your life not your brother. Point two- dont forget point two.
Seriously, I have problems with siblings too...and i know how worse it can get. But i have to advise you...just ignore your brother....If he starts telling you off...dont shout at him or cry or hold it back, Just turn around face him and tell him "you know what" (give a dramatic pause) "i actual;ly agree with you." That should wipe the smirk off his face. Be a little self confident. hope that helped.
And you are AMAZING R.J. no matter what anyone else says.
How could he say you suck at art or writing? You are one of the most creative and wonderful authors on Quibblo! If he gives you more problems, tell him, "If you're saying this to your sister, who goes through things like her period (it hurts like Hell! Thank gosh I all ready had it for June!) monthly, you must not care about me at all. If this is how you feel about me, look at me in the eyes, and admit it." If that doesn't work, (no offense) screw him.
Don't worry RJ, you can always vent to us! I have a little brother too, and though he gets on my nerves I still love him XD (Even when I try to convince myself otherwise) :P.
Don't listen to him, you're creative, smart, talented and beautiful! I haven't met you, but I'm pretty sure! :D
Hope he starts backing off soon - and If you ever need to talk to anyone....
1) I am thee only child..
2) Last Thursday, a similiar predictument had occured at a pals home. Her two twin sisters were all three arguing over one blouse. I convinced my pal to go fore a quick jog.. It solved thee predictument.
Suggestions:
- Avoid.
- Exercise.
( Btw; The description of you're sibling reminds me of " Chuky "..)
look gurl. Ive read ur work & u r an amazing author so dont let him put u down lik that. Ur brother is just being an butt wipeee Trying 2 push ur buttons. The best thing 2 do is ignore him dont run away from him or make ur bedroom ur bat cave. Jus ignore the .c.r.a.p(ik thats harder said than done) he says. & dont worry gurl u cn always vent. Haha i do it almost daily
Wow. 1: Your brother is an idiot by saying you're not a great writer because you are a phenomenal writer. B: You are beautiful and a great singer no matter what anyone says! Everyone is beautiful and can sing just fine. And cinco: Your little brother is saying these things because he knows it gets to you. You need to demand that he stop and ignore him if he continues. A good way to not feel hurt by what he says is to think about all the good things about you and funny memories and focus on those