Friend Problems. Please help!
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So I have this "friend." And I really don't want to be her friend anymore.
She's being really bitchy and annoying.
I'm a bit germaphobic, and she knows that. She comes on the bus sick, and she sneezes into her hand. Then she takes it and rubs it off on me. And then she laughs. I really don't like to get sick. I have a bad history with sicknesses, and I do whatever I can to keep myself from getting sick. That made me very uncomfortable.
She touches me in ways that make me feel uncomfortable. She slaps my face, my arms, even my butt at times. And I HATE it. I tell her to stop and she just laughs.
She can't even keep a small promise like playing tag with me.
She calls me dumb, forgetful, an idiot, and annoying.
She knows about my crush, and purposely embarrasses me in front of him.
I feel good about how I look, and then she comes up to me and tells me I look terrible, and should change the way I look.
In Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, and most other countries from the previous Soviet Union, it's rude to ask or beg to come to someone's home. She's from Ukraine, and she kept on begging me and asking to come. Finally I let her. She came over today. She was supposed to come early. And I spent all last night getting ready, and I took my mom's name calling and threatening to clean the house for her. She calls me and says, "I'm coming at 1." My dad works at night, and needs to sleep, and she knows that. My dad had to stay up and lose precious sleeping time because she decided she was coming at one. She comes and she plops onto the couch. We eat, and she's telling me how bad it tastes. As a joke I change the iPad password, and tell her that it's my birthday(it was) she's looking at me, like "What's your birthday?" and she gets the passcode locked and it gets disabled. Apparently it's my fault and I'm a bitch.
And I saw her texts with her mom. No, I was not snooping. She's telling her mom how stupid I am, and how I won't let her borrow my books. I didn't cause she never returns them.
She calls herself my best friend. I don't feel comfortable around her, and I don't want to be her friend anymore. But I don't know how to tell her. Can you please help me?
She's being really bitchy and annoying.
I'm a bit germaphobic, and she knows that. She comes on the bus sick, and she sneezes into her hand. Then she takes it and rubs it off on me. And then she laughs. I really don't like to get sick. I have a bad history with sicknesses, and I do whatever I can to keep myself from getting sick. That made me very uncomfortable.
She touches me in ways that make me feel uncomfortable. She slaps my face, my arms, even my butt at times. And I HATE it. I tell her to stop and she just laughs.
She can't even keep a small promise like playing tag with me.
She calls me dumb, forgetful, an idiot, and annoying.
She knows about my crush, and purposely embarrasses me in front of him.
I feel good about how I look, and then she comes up to me and tells me I look terrible, and should change the way I look.
In Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, and most other countries from the previous Soviet Union, it's rude to ask or beg to come to someone's home. She's from Ukraine, and she kept on begging me and asking to come. Finally I let her. She came over today. She was supposed to come early. And I spent all last night getting ready, and I took my mom's name calling and threatening to clean the house for her. She calls me and says, "I'm coming at 1." My dad works at night, and needs to sleep, and she knows that. My dad had to stay up and lose precious sleeping time because she decided she was coming at one. She comes and she plops onto the couch. We eat, and she's telling me how bad it tastes. As a joke I change the iPad password, and tell her that it's my birthday(it was) she's looking at me, like "What's your birthday?" and she gets the passcode locked and it gets disabled. Apparently it's my fault and I'm a bitch.
And I saw her texts with her mom. No, I was not snooping. She's telling her mom how stupid I am, and how I won't let her borrow my books. I didn't cause she never returns them.
She calls herself my best friend. I don't feel comfortable around her, and I don't want to be her friend anymore. But I don't know how to tell her. Can you please help me?
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You should say that to her face, if she laughs or whatever, reapeat it. Look in her eyes and make it sound like you are very serious. Or tell someone other than your Quibblo friends. Hope this helped!
If she treats you that way, she's not worth your time! Friends are people that are supposed to be there for you, not be mean to you!
My advise is to tell her how you feel, or to ignore her. She's not worth it. Good luck! I hope you find someone better!
Shes not your real friend. Im here for you!
=) Thank you!
Tell her she needs to stop! I would defiantly tell her but, this is you so you do what you're comfortable with.
Well, you could just straight up tell her that you don't like the way she behaves, and you really don't appreciate it. Tell her that if she's going to be your friend she has to respect you, and if she can't do that, you two can't be friends. Friends are people who love you, care about you, and respect you. If she can't do that then she can't be your friend. Tell her first, wait a day, and if she's still being a buttface then just don't stay her friend. You don't have to be mean. Just distant.
She doesn't sound like any friend to me, personally I would tell her that she is a b/tch and shouldn't be so mean to people she calls her best friend. You could also tell one of your other friends about it, and have them with you. Hope this helps!
Tell your parents they will understand and help you...
I would, but her mom is one of my mom's closest friends. My parent's just think she's a "nice girl."
If your mom loves you than her relationship with your friends mom doesnt mean anything. Who would she believe, her friend or her daughter?
My mom and I don't really have a good relationship. If you want to know what I'm talking about, read "My Confession."
I'm so sorry. Best thing to do for this problem and your family's is to tell a teacher.. they can help you. Dont be afraid there are others like you out there. Step up. If this keeps happening its going to get worse and worse. Be brave.
I have been in a similar situation where your friend shows no respect towards you and makes you feel ugly. I don't talk to that girl anymore. There's no reason to surround yourself with negativity, you know? You like yourself and you shouldn't let anyone get you down. I would just not talk to her as much and eventually break off the friendship if it really was making me feel bad. Maybe you should tell her exactly how you feel and maybe remember that there could be a cultural gap between you
I'm in a similar situation, and what I would do (but can't really do because I'm just not awesome enough, but you are, so yeah) is try to get new friends, or talk to your old ones. Try to be around her as less as you possibly can. Don't talk to her. And I'd tell a few of your other friends, and they'll help you.
Try telling her how you feel about her and if that doesn't help try ignoring her!