If you have ever been in love or thought you were please help me out.

Are you Male or Female?

• Male
• Female

Are you over 30 years old?

• Yes
• No
• 20 - 25
• 25 - 30

Have you been in love?

• Yes
• No

If you were considering a long-term relationship possibly marriage at some point with this person would you be ok with them keeping former lovers on Face Book and continuing a friendship with them

• Yes
• No

Is it important to you that your partner says they love you?

• Yes
• No
• As long as I know they love me, they never have to say it!
• If I say I love you I normally expect that in return

Is it appropriate to discuss things that happened with a former lover to the person you are seriously dating?

• Yes
• No
• I never discuss intimate things concerning former lovers under any circumstances but situational things are ok
• I would never bring up a former lover with the person I am with - that is inappropriate and could be very hurtful.

Would you be ok with your partner going out drinking and dancing at a club without you until it closed around 2:00AM?

• Yes
• No
• Only if I really trusted that they wouldn't do anything inappropriate
• I would never go out to a place like that without my partner, that's what I did when I was single

Would you stay in a relationship with someone that broke your trust and is unwilling to accept the time it will take to re-earn it?

Please select all that apply.

• Yes
• No
• Depends on how I felt about them
• If it was something other than cheating on me and they were willing to re-earn my trust, I would stay other than that I would leave!

Is it appropriate to send a text to a former lover on Valentines day expressing that they had one of the best nights they can remember and they hope they are doing well?

Please select all that apply.

• yes
• As long as they are only friends
• Are you kidding - run!
• HELL NO!

Is it ok to go out with former lovers for lunch, dinner or to a club (Just as Friends)

Please select all that apply.

• Yes
• No
• Never
• I wouldn't think of it - it isn't appropriate.

What are signs that a person isn't ready for a long-term relationship?

Please select all that apply.

• The questions in this survey are a good indication that they aren't ready
• If the person isn't willing to let go of past relationships and focus on what is happening right now
• They can't answer I love you when you tell them that you love them.

If the person you are with doesn't want to break up but isn't willing to change some things that have been very hurtful then ...

Please select all that apply.

• She may love you but doesn't know how to express it
• She may have been hurt in the past but you don't deserve to be hurt as a result of things that she is still working through
• She may want the best of both worlds and some people need to be shown that it is either one way or another - you can't have both.
• She is testing your limits and you need to decide what you want and need and stick to it.