Am I wrong for being mad at her?!?
This is all true ok... you ready... The first bit isn't why I am mad at her just read an hopefully you will find out why.
One of my best friends has never had a boyfriend so I felt really bad because she kept going on and on about how badly she wanted one. Now I know a few guy's here and there because I am just that girl who just doesn't shut up and has to talk to everyone :P.... Anyways... I was on Facebook talking to a guy who I met at a party, so me and him are just talking over Facebook chat when my friend leans over my shoulder and says " what ya doooooooing??" and my reply was "I am talking to my friend". She freaked out and went "Is he a dude?? Is he hot?? will he like me?!?" In my state of shock is simply said " yes... i think so and How the heck am I supposed to know?!?". I took a look at his profile picture with her and when we saw it we both went "DAMN!!" yh thats right he was HOT!! i mean like hotter than a volcanoe that was on the sun... so you can see my point (if not i am basically say he was SUPER SUPER HOT!!)
I was trying to make it fair on my friend sitting next to me so I asked him if he want'ed to add her. He did. 30 seconds later he messaged me saying WOW she's hot! i got slightly jealous but it went away quickly only because I had to end a 6 month relationship with my boyfriend a week befor this, and I am not exactly looking for someone at the moment (sad right :P) .... back to the point i am trying to make... So i replyed yeah... i guess, she saw the message and blushed. then he asked her out ..... now he hasn't even met her yet and has only known her for 40 mins, she just says yeah I would love to
They are now together and she is rubbing it in my face.... I am not jealous at all srsly. I had a wonderful relationship with a wonderful guy. Now I am mad at her because she is such a rude person that she called him up and said "yeah we should meet but Sharpie needs to come along with me" He was like yeah sure Sharpie is awesome (I am sharpie just so you know). Nothing bugs me more then people springing stuff on me, it's one thing when my rowing coach says Sharpie you have been moved to Stroke instead of second seat!" that I can live with but when people just asume I have nothing better to do thats just plain rude to me. So I told her that I have plains that day which just happens to be 4 hours of rowing then homework and then I am babysitting for my parents. She said "oh come on you never do your homework!!" ok she must not see my report cards I get A's and B's and the occasional C (as you can probably tell from my poor grammer and spelling that the C is for english) This made me really mad but I just said sorry I can't come.
During rowing I get an hour break to get the blood off and wrap up all my blisters. During this time I looked at my phone to check my text messages and I had 20 just from her, all asking me if I can ditch rowing and come with her. I texted back saying no I can't I am sorry. so she sent oh you must not care about me then. I didn't reply because I knew I was going to say somthing I would have regretted. After rowing had finished my father walked to the car with me and said " I know today was though but that water was really choppy sweet heart so don't be upset" I told him I wasn't upset about the poor weather I was upset with my friend. So being a sweet father he just said "look I know that what she is doing is annoying you but just ignor it, in all honesty she should have just left it when you said no the second time"
This made me feel HEAPS better... until she sent me a text message saying that she never want's to talk to me again :[ now I feel like im the bad guy in all of this. some how keeping healthy and helping people now makes you a bad person!!
I think I have a right to be just a little tickd off with her....
I was trying to make it fair on my friend sitting next to me so I asked him if he want'ed to add her. He did. 30 seconds later he messaged me saying WOW she's hot! i got slightly jealous but it went away quickly only because I had to end a 6 month relationship with my boyfriend a week befor this, and I am not exactly looking for someone at the moment (sad right :P) .... back to the point i am trying to make... So i replyed yeah... i guess, she saw the message and blushed. then he asked her out ..... now he hasn't even met her yet and has only known her for 40 mins, she just says yeah I would love to
They are now together and she is rubbing it in my face.... I am not jealous at all srsly. I had a wonderful relationship with a wonderful guy. Now I am mad at her because she is such a rude person that she called him up and said "yeah we should meet but Sharpie needs to come along with me" He was like yeah sure Sharpie is awesome (I am sharpie just so you know). Nothing bugs me more then people springing stuff on me, it's one thing when my rowing coach says Sharpie you have been moved to Stroke instead of second seat!" that I can live with but when people just asume I have nothing better to do thats just plain rude to me. So I told her that I have plains that day which just happens to be 4 hours of rowing then homework and then I am babysitting for my parents. She said "oh come on you never do your homework!!" ok she must not see my report cards I get A's and B's and the occasional C (as you can probably tell from my poor grammer and spelling that the C is for english) This made me really mad but I just said sorry I can't come.
During rowing I get an hour break to get the blood off and wrap up all my blisters. During this time I looked at my phone to check my text messages and I had 20 just from her, all asking me if I can ditch rowing and come with her. I texted back saying no I can't I am sorry. so she sent oh you must not care about me then. I didn't reply because I knew I was going to say somthing I would have regretted. After rowing had finished my father walked to the car with me and said " I know today was though but that water was really choppy sweet heart so don't be upset" I told him I wasn't upset about the poor weather I was upset with my friend. So being a sweet father he just said "look I know that what she is doing is annoying you but just ignor it, in all honesty she should have just left it when you said no the second time"
This made me feel HEAPS better... until she sent me a text message saying that she never want's to talk to me again :[ now I feel like im the bad guy in all of this. some how keeping healthy and helping people now makes you a bad person!!
I think I have a right to be just a little tickd off with her....
11 Comments
Don't worry, they'll break up. She's just being rude. The best thing to do is hang out with other friends.
Thank's sorry about posting somthing as childish as this but she is making me feel so bad :[
No worries(: Its good to get things off your chest. Besides you did nothing wrong, in fact she should be grateful to you for setting her up with him
Be blunt with her - don't let her get to you! If she acts that way, act that way to her! Treat others how you want others to treat you! Well, it fits for her, not you, since she's the one that acts that way.
It's awesome that you do rowing, by the way.
I like your thinking xD
She's annoying and you're right :) Talk to her tell her boys aren't everything in life. If she continues the same behavior well there's nothing you can do! Let her go or ignore her for a while till she's herself again. :)
Yeah she has been acting this way for like a month and it's getting on my nervs as you can probably tell xD :)x
Okay, so I'm a really temperamental person, so if this sounds harsh then no one be mad at me xD
She's not worth it. If she was really your friend, then she shouldn't even be begging you. Because you didn't agree to come in the first place, and now she doesn't even want to talk to you?! I'm sorry, but that's messed up. She should at least understand that you don't want to come.
There is nothing harsh about that :) x and your right it is messd up!!
You didnt do anything wrongmp, but she is obvuously ungrateful.
Okay, you practically set her up with this dude in the first place, so why in the world is she being so rude to you? You obviously cant just drop everything to meet her needs. you have a life. So tell her that! You're life doesnt have to revolve around her!