Please Help!!!! My best friend's parents are getting a divorce. She has a heart of gold but she is taking the divorce badly. Help what can i do to help her!!! And they will loose thier house D:

Imperfect_and_Loving_it: 09-10-2011 at 4:56 PM
Really all you can do is try to make life a little more positive for her. Tell her about how it'll be better if they're apart, because when they're together they aren't happy. And (probably) neither is she. Who knows? Maybe when they divorce they'll find someone who can make them truly happy. But most importantly: it's ok to cry. If you try to take it all by yourself, it's hurting you more. All I can say about the house thing is that you need to give her an arm to lean on. Hope she feels better!
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MyAlarmMakesMePee: 09-10-2011 at 5:07 PM
Yeah me too... What she is really upset about is that she never saw it coming. they never fought either. They just told her 2 days ago and said they loved each other but they just werent IN love
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PeaceableBird: 09-10-2011 at 5:11 PM
Suggestions:

- Exercise/ Yoga( Burning calories always calms thee inner relief )
- Counseling(.. If possible )
- Request increasement of confidence and motivation towards con predictument plotting.

As being age of five, my parents also divorced due to a great deal of aruging thanks to disagreeing much. I had been put into counseling fore about two Months and counseling provided needed appreciated help; Highly suggested alongside yoga..

Message me when needing much more of helping advice.
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_Gryffindork_: 09-10-2011 at 7:57 PM
Ok well first im so sorry for her. Second, I reall think that counseling might help. I know when my mom had the miscarage (I know this is WAY diffrent but it cause me a great deal of pain and still does...) I never wanted to talk about it, but one day the pain just exploded because I hurt so bad. And counseling would have helped. So I would suggest that.
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BleedMyHeartOut4U: 09-10-2011 at 8:13 PM
The only thing you really can do and just comfort her and try and make her feel better well there's more than one you give her advice,look things up,tell her to write letters,get her a conselour,many things but it's up to you remember that
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Team_Odair: 09-10-2011 at 11:01 PM
When my parents got divorced, I had no one there for me. All you can really do is be there for her, help her when she needs it, listen and give advice... It's hard to get by, but there isn't too much you can do to help other than that.
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DontForgetMeIBeg: 09-11-2011 at 6:35 PM
Is it a divorce in which she never sees a parent again?
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MyAlarmMakesMePee: 09-17-2011 at 10:13 AM
No she can see them again but itll be hard for her because she had a good life and never really had any problems with her family. And her mom is taking her to counseling and stuff but she says she doesnt need it so I guess its gotten better.
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