NeverCaredNeverWill asks:

Got caught cutting and my parents want me to go to counciling. Great.

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Sodas_Babygirl: 09-14-2011 at 9:26 PM
I was in the same position that you are in and I'm still in it. I've been seeing a counceler(sp?) for about five months now and trust me, it's worth it. You can vent to them about everything that's on your mind and they can't tell anyone unless you give them permission. It helps so much and I think you'll like it.
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PeaceableBird: 09-15-2011 at 2:18 AM
Ehh.. Two Months ago a fellow peer also got caught performing Self Harm in thee males restroom as he had been ' Ditching ' second period.. Thee french teacher caught him and he had been sent to thee assistant principals office.

Though, he resumes to perform Self Harm.. I believe he as recently started sessions with a thearpist.. His step mother died nearly seven Months ago.. This explains abit.

( Consider this a possible cure. Counseling shall provide much needed help )
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m3rcy616: 09-15-2011 at 2:59 AM
I'm assuming by the wording of the statement, that you don't cut for suicidal reasons?
(I used to be a cutter, simply because I liked how it felt and looked. of course, I'm one of the people who finds scarification to be beautiful, if it heals correctly, as well... and most people find that to be a taboo.)
So I know that, just because one cuts, it doesn't make them suicidal.
But counseling's not all bad, so long as they don't push pills.
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m3rcy616: 09-15-2011 at 3:04 AM
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if they start pushing pills at you, especially if it's within the first 2 or 3 meetings, then i would advise you to convince your parents to find another counselor. (seeing as they probably won't let you go without counseling.) They should listen, not throw a 'magic' pill at you.

Your parents are just scared by the idea of you cutting. At least take the comfort in knowing that they care and love you enough to try to get you help, even if you don't actually need it.)
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Deleted_xxx: 09-15-2011 at 2:04 PM
I've just got caught as well!
Me and my bf.... well he had to go to hospital. And well both our parents found out and now they got social services involved so we have to go to meetings with them.
But already it's just making me worse. I don't want help.
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MakeMeWannaDieXXX_: 09-15-2011 at 5:28 PM
maybe it's 4 the best,it might help u
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Into_Alesana_: 09-15-2011 at 7:09 PM
so did my parents... I have no idea how I managed to get out of counseling though! xP
I know I'm guilty of my own bloodshed.... but for what it's worth.... stop cutting, cuz that's how you get your parents off your back and that's how you get out of going to counseling.... I should take my own advice too....
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Starkid_At_Heart: 09-15-2011 at 8:41 PM
Sucks for you ! Agh ! I wish I could write some paragraph about how to stop and my own experience, but I hate complaining to other people, so I'm just gonna say: THAT SUCKS :L I hate counseling, just because they act like they know everything about you, and that they understand. Talk to me if you wantt[=
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Malena_Harpoon: 09-16-2011 at 8:58 PM
then don't cut.
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spencer_cavanaugh: 09-17-2011 at 10:47 AM
why would you even cut yourself? People have way worse lives then you, so suck it up......are you the only miserable person on earth?
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