Help plz!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just read it plz!
Ok, so Lately I've been attending my brother's wresting tournaments. He's great and all but that's only a small part of why I go. So, there's this guy. He's not really cute and if you'd shown me a pic of him, I would've been like, "Sure, he's ok but..." but I met him and now I'm head over heels! Every time I'm around him I'm so nervous and can't help but blush! It drives me insane! I'm really shy around him (More so than usual). I'm not sure if he really ever thinks about me or even notices me! I've started wearing makeup and straightening my hair.... It crazy! Usually I cringe just at the thought of this stuff! Help! What can I do! and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! Don't say this stuff like, "Oh just tell him you like him!" because I CAN'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm not the social butterfly everyone loves and want's to date! That's why I'm in this mess!
Oh! and one more detail... There's like a 4 year age difference between us. Is that weird? I mean, If I could, I'd try to forget him because i know it won't happen but I just can't for whatever reason. It's driving me crazy!!!! I'm driven to tears sometimes and it really is frustrating!
HELP!
Oh! and one more detail... There's like a 4 year age difference between us. Is that weird? I mean, If I could, I'd try to forget him because i know it won't happen but I just can't for whatever reason. It's driving me crazy!!!! I'm driven to tears sometimes and it really is frustrating!
HELP!
8 Comments
younger or older?
older
Just drop hints that you're interested,that's what I do, because I understand that. I get so worked up and nervous when Im around a guy I like.
well, it depends on what age you are, if you are like 12, and he is like 16 or vice versa, then its a littleweird/creepy, still do-able, but a bit weird. if you are older, not so much. im not really good at the other stuff, but mabey just start to be his friend first....sorry, not much help ther, but im trying. hope you get your guy.... :)
i think you should try becoming his friend first. then you can learn more about him that way and you'll start feeling more comfortable around him. and you can go on like that.
i think you should try becoming his friend first. then you can learn more about him that way and you'll start feeling more comfortable around him. and you can go on like that.
Thx for ALL the advice so far!
Try, even if your not social, to talk to him & get to know him so more!
You might be in a fase (I can't spell!), but it sounds like the real deal!
Good on you!
Oh, age difference is okay!