Dating/Relationships
Please comment cuz I actually WANT to hear what u guys have to say about this. You can disagree with me or agree with me, cuz I just wanna see what you guys think :D
I have a friend which I'm going to call Alice.... In the past 5 months she's had 2 boyfriends and broke up with them both. Her longest relationship was less than a month. Her last break up(2 days ago) was because her boyfriend was acting different and "ignored her". She's my best friend and whenever she gets a boyfriend, she doesn't tell me until about a week or two, or three weeks later. What kind of friend does that??
I have another friend which I'm going to call Sophie...(I'll get to the point soon I promise!! :3) Sophie in the last six months has had "2" boyfriends. Meaning she had one, then dated another without breaking up with bf #1 which is technically 2. Then broke up with them then got a new one.
NOW comes in MY opinion. I believe that a lot of couples go into a phase at the beginning of their relationship. A phase where all you want to do is spend time with one another. Then one gets bored and they need their space. That's what I believe happened to Alice. It sort of annoys me how when one person sends one less text message to their girlfriend or whatever and the girl gets all upset thinking their gonna break up with them
Girls, I'm a girl too, need to understand that guys need space and that all the mushy stuff gets boring and repetitive after a while. Even though guys don't say it, they still believe and feel it. I also believe that guys just want to make their girlfriends happy and if they can't accomplish it, it's an accident or maybe they didn't realize it. But of course if they want to make your life miserable, you should dump them...
What GUYS need to understand is that it's a woman's nature to get clingy. Most girls out there get like that. But obviously it's gonna wear off depending on the girl. Even though their not interested in what you do sometimes, they try to spend time with you(even if it causes you to die in your video game or something) Also, when a girl says something like,"I'm not upset" when she has her head down...DONT WALK AWAY STUPID!!! SOMETHINGS OBVIOUSLY WRONG!!! Girls don't always mean what they say!
I think that people should be in a relationship if they really want to be committed to it -cough- Sophie -cough-
Honestly, you do what YOU want to do but that's none of my business, but this is what I think about this kinda stuff
I have another friend which I'm going to call Sophie...(I'll get to the point soon I promise!! :3) Sophie in the last six months has had "2" boyfriends. Meaning she had one, then dated another without breaking up with bf #1 which is technically 2. Then broke up with them then got a new one.
NOW comes in MY opinion. I believe that a lot of couples go into a phase at the beginning of their relationship. A phase where all you want to do is spend time with one another. Then one gets bored and they need their space. That's what I believe happened to Alice. It sort of annoys me how when one person sends one less text message to their girlfriend or whatever and the girl gets all upset thinking their gonna break up with them
Girls, I'm a girl too, need to understand that guys need space and that all the mushy stuff gets boring and repetitive after a while. Even though guys don't say it, they still believe and feel it. I also believe that guys just want to make their girlfriends happy and if they can't accomplish it, it's an accident or maybe they didn't realize it. But of course if they want to make your life miserable, you should dump them...
What GUYS need to understand is that it's a woman's nature to get clingy. Most girls out there get like that. But obviously it's gonna wear off depending on the girl. Even though their not interested in what you do sometimes, they try to spend time with you(even if it causes you to die in your video game or something) Also, when a girl says something like,"I'm not upset" when she has her head down...DONT WALK AWAY STUPID!!! SOMETHINGS OBVIOUSLY WRONG!!! Girls don't always mean what they say!
I think that people should be in a relationship if they really want to be committed to it -cough- Sophie -cough-
Honestly, you do what YOU want to do but that's none of my business, but this is what I think about this kinda stuff
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I am a girl too and I agree with you. Guys probably get annoyed after a while of the mushy stuff. I mean, if I was in a relationship, I would get bored of that stuff too. :) thanks for writing this to all of us clueless girls :)
It's actually true. I'm a girl. And I know most guys don't like mushy stuff. I had a friend, he's a guy. Usually, he doesn't like getting into mushy things. But he gave up his need just to make his girlfriend happy. (They broke up) Most people call him a jerk, I say he's the greatest boyfriend (no I never dated him). He's caring and rather keeps his girl happy. At least there some boys willing to give up their needs for their girl.
But I also agree. After awhile, it's get too boring. Mushy stuff doesn't need to be necessary.
i agree totally
i agree 100% and no offense...but ur friend sounds kinda like a whore sorta.... im sorry i know i shouldnt say that at ALL and youll probably hate me or something but its just my opinion...IM SORRY!!!! and youll probably think im stupid for even commenting it :P i bet your friend is really nice and great...but that was just wrong
It's ok... I was thinking the same thing! :/
I always go through that 'honeymoon' phase. I was being a bad friend to my bff and only wanted to spend time with him. But I realzied what I was doing and sat with her at lunch, but she just ignored me. But that was a while ago. Realtionships are complicated
i dont have a boyfriend but i still agree with u
totally agree with you girl!!! if i knew where to find you would be getting the hug of the century!!!!!