Help Me ? Please, I'm sorta desperate
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okay, well theres this guy, I've been talking to on facebook, and we've been talking for the past couple of months, I've never actually met him, but he's friends with Tyler and Tyler said he's nice, and anyway, I've been talking to him and he's really funny and stuff, but I kinda see him as a friend , but obviously he thinks somethings going to happen, because I was talking to him today and he asked me to shift him, but I really don't want to because , he's a bit of a d!ck-head, but he's funny, ya know , good guy friend material, but not boyfriend material. and well yeah I don't want to shift him, but everytime I say "i dunno" which basically means no, he asks again, he's not exactly taking the hint, but yeah anyway, back to waht I need help with,
How do I say no , nicely, ? :)
and yeah I know I'm a little desperate coming to Quibblo with this, but I have no girlfriends to talk about this with, :)
How do I say no , nicely, ? :)
and yeah I know I'm a little desperate coming to Quibblo with this, but I have no girlfriends to talk about this with, :)
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Tell him, "thanks, but I'm not really looking for a boyfriend right now."
I tried that, but he just doesn't give up, and I don't think he wants me to be his girlfriend , I think he just wants the shift, to be honest, :)
just ignore him if he keeps talking to u block him he will never no and since he wont leave you alone that is the best opportunity to do for now.
I would but, he's a friend of Tyler's , so that wouldn't work, :P but thanks, :)
Tell him that your flattered but you currently don't want to be in a relationship. If he keeps pestering you just say that your answer still stands. Tell him he's a great friend but thats all there is between the two of you. Hope this advise helps. O and you can talk to me anytime!
yeah, I tried, but he's one of those guys who thinks everyone loves him, and he thinks I'm just playing hard to get. an dI also don't think he wants a relationshiop, I think he just wants the shift :P
Well you could be serious with him. serious tone in voice When you tell him that you only want to be freinds, you actually mean it. if he cant get that clue then 86 him quick.
Let us know if all goes well hope this helps.
Tyler can also help you with this, if he truly is a good friend of yours as well. maybe he can help out too.
Yeah, Tyler is trying to help, but the guy -who I'm now going to call Bob_ Bob knows me and Tyler are best friends, so he thinks Tyler is helping me ? Her thinks I'm playing hard to get, so yeah , he thinks every one loves him, :P
If he keeps bothering you you could try "Look, you're a jerk now leave me alone!"
haha, yeah, but he's really nice, and he has the potential to be a good friend, so yeah , I dunno. ha, thanks though, if all else fails, I'll definietly use your advice ;)
tell him to stop and that u DO NOT want a oyfriend or like i said before IGNORE him i no u dont wanna be mean but really theres not that much to do...
yeah, I suppose,. but the thing is I don't want to ignore him, because he could be an amazeballs friend,:P, but yeah. . .
simply enplane to him that your not interested that way but you would sill like to talk to him and possibly meet him while you're with friends but never alone!! if he seems like a jerk now it could be way worse when you meet him in person
yeah, Me and Tyler are meeting up with him next week, but yeah, ye see the thing is, he doesnt seem like a jerk, he could be an awesome freind, I just don't want to shift him :P
sorry explane
That's quite strange... :S Just tell him you REALLY mean it, and that you don't want to, and that you're not playing hard to get. Tell him you just want to be friends.
Yeah, I'll try that, it's just that as much as I love beating people up , I hate being mean to people, and to make matters worse he just said that he really likes me, and wants to take me to a concert, ;P
Just be careful...he sounds a bit strange to me...
okay, thanks, maybe I should wait until my wrist is fully healed before I meet him, at least that way I can beat him up, if he tries something, ;P
xD Probably a good idea, yeah. And if you do meet him, meet him in a crowded place with a friend...
Do the good ol' smack-in-the-face (don't be afraid of violence mwahaha) if he doesn't buzz off. Get Tyler to help you.
haha, No worries there, I aint afraid of violence ;), ha wouldnt be the first time I got in a fight :P
=D Good! xD I get in fights sometimes too.
Cool, :D