ok sooooo... I need some help.. very badly!
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hoooookay.... so. yesterday my friend Carolyn learned that her ex boyfriend -as of 2 weeks ago, Noel, was dating her new friend Anabella..... she texted me about it after school at like 3:30... so I asked
"is this gonna make things awkward?" (stupid question, right?)
Carolyn: "I'm crying so effing hard!"
Me: "Want me to come over?"
Carolyn: "Idk, maybe..."
the conversation ended there... I ate some tacos, and then was getting ready to go to a prayer night at my church, then she texted me agian
"Ellie please come over, I just threw my phone and screamed cuz Noel says Anabella actually makes him happy"
I told her I'd be right over
I got there at 6, and was going to stay for 45 minutes, because prayer started at 7:00... I hung out with her, listened to some screamo with her, and watched funny youtube videos with her... then it was time to go, by then she'd stopped crying, and I asked if she wanted to go to prayer with me, but she just wanted to stay home.
I went to prayer, begged God to help Carolyn get through this, and cried the whole 2 hours I was there... I just hate seeing her be hurt like this... through the duration of prayer, God reminded me that He had Carolyn in His hand, and that He would turn this situation around for His glory and for Carolyn's, Anabella's, and Noel's good... that comforted me a lot, but I still pleaded to God for Carolyn to know the same...
prayer ended, I talked to my friend Abi, my ex Nathan's little sister, and I actually talked to Nathan a little haha it was weird (I guess I'm completely over him now, so it wasn't like, a bad weird) but yeah, me and Abi made plans to hang out and go eat fro yo next weekend...
by the time I got back home, I was feeling a lot better. I was super tired but I stayed up a little late to watch Invader Zim and read JTHM and Happy Noodle Boy. then I fell asleep after attempting to draw some comics...
my alarm didn't go off, then my mom came in my room and told me it was time to get up. I was like oh, ok... so I took a drink of the Rockstar on my nightstand to help my brain wake up... but I just couldn't get out of bed. I fell asleep again. 10 minutes later my mom came in and said something I couldn't quite make out, then I remember waking up agian at like 10 in the morning and my mom asked me something about school, apparently I fell asleep once more cuz the next thing I knew, my dad came in and told me Brett would be here in half an hour (my youth pastor/guitar teacher). I got up in a hurry, but my throat hurt suuuuper badly, and I felt dizzy, and idk, I felt sick, not really nauseous, but just... gross.
I took a shower, dried and straightened my hair, all in record time. then I went downstairs and made myself some breakfast (if you can call it breakfast at 4 pm...?) then I laid down on the couch, exhausted....
Brett never showed up, we guessed he must have been busy, or forgotten, but I didn't mind cuz my throat still hurt, my voice was going away and I had a headache.
a few minutes ago, I found my phone.
I had 3 texts from Carolyn.
8:35 am (during 1st period at school)
Where r u??? I'm struggling not to cry.....
12:18 pm (during lunch)
Ellie???
2:01 pm (prolly during 7th period)
Ellie where are you???
I felt sooo bad :(
I wanted so badly to be there for her, but I had to go and get sick and miss school today :[ I feel terrible! then I remembered that I missed my German friend Daria's goodbye party at school today! she's going back to Germany tomorrow, first thing in the morning!
now I don't know what to tell Carolyn or Daria!!
I feel like such a bad friend! :(
ahhhhh!!! D:
what do I dooooo?!?!
please help me if you can!
"is this gonna make things awkward?" (stupid question, right?)
Carolyn: "I'm crying so effing hard!"
Me: "Want me to come over?"
Carolyn: "Idk, maybe..."
the conversation ended there... I ate some tacos, and then was getting ready to go to a prayer night at my church, then she texted me agian
"Ellie please come over, I just threw my phone and screamed cuz Noel says Anabella actually makes him happy"
I told her I'd be right over
I got there at 6, and was going to stay for 45 minutes, because prayer started at 7:00... I hung out with her, listened to some screamo with her, and watched funny youtube videos with her... then it was time to go, by then she'd stopped crying, and I asked if she wanted to go to prayer with me, but she just wanted to stay home.
I went to prayer, begged God to help Carolyn get through this, and cried the whole 2 hours I was there... I just hate seeing her be hurt like this... through the duration of prayer, God reminded me that He had Carolyn in His hand, and that He would turn this situation around for His glory and for Carolyn's, Anabella's, and Noel's good... that comforted me a lot, but I still pleaded to God for Carolyn to know the same...
prayer ended, I talked to my friend Abi, my ex Nathan's little sister, and I actually talked to Nathan a little haha it was weird (I guess I'm completely over him now, so it wasn't like, a bad weird) but yeah, me and Abi made plans to hang out and go eat fro yo next weekend...
by the time I got back home, I was feeling a lot better. I was super tired but I stayed up a little late to watch Invader Zim and read JTHM and Happy Noodle Boy. then I fell asleep after attempting to draw some comics...
my alarm didn't go off, then my mom came in my room and told me it was time to get up. I was like oh, ok... so I took a drink of the Rockstar on my nightstand to help my brain wake up... but I just couldn't get out of bed. I fell asleep again. 10 minutes later my mom came in and said something I couldn't quite make out, then I remember waking up agian at like 10 in the morning and my mom asked me something about school, apparently I fell asleep once more cuz the next thing I knew, my dad came in and told me Brett would be here in half an hour (my youth pastor/guitar teacher). I got up in a hurry, but my throat hurt suuuuper badly, and I felt dizzy, and idk, I felt sick, not really nauseous, but just... gross.
I took a shower, dried and straightened my hair, all in record time. then I went downstairs and made myself some breakfast (if you can call it breakfast at 4 pm...?) then I laid down on the couch, exhausted....
Brett never showed up, we guessed he must have been busy, or forgotten, but I didn't mind cuz my throat still hurt, my voice was going away and I had a headache.
a few minutes ago, I found my phone.
I had 3 texts from Carolyn.
8:35 am (during 1st period at school)
Where r u??? I'm struggling not to cry.....
12:18 pm (during lunch)
Ellie???
2:01 pm (prolly during 7th period)
Ellie where are you???
I felt sooo bad :(
I wanted so badly to be there for her, but I had to go and get sick and miss school today :[ I feel terrible! then I remembered that I missed my German friend Daria's goodbye party at school today! she's going back to Germany tomorrow, first thing in the morning!
now I don't know what to tell Carolyn or Daria!!
I feel like such a bad friend! :(
ahhhhh!!! D:
what do I dooooo?!?!
please help me if you can!
6 Comments
you're not a bad friend...you were feeling sick so it wasn't your fault...
that's reassuring!
thanks :)
text her back. Tell her the truth that you were asleep the whole time and you weren't feeling well. You aren't a bad friend at all!
thanks for the advice!
she texted me right after prayer was done at my church, so I called her and explained everything and she she wasn't mad! :D
oh and my friend Daria was at prayer too, so I did get to say goodbye to her before she left!! :')
Great! I'm glad to give you advice :)
It's not your fault you weren't feeling well, just text her back and explain why, she'll understand. I hope stuff works out!