Help Needed
There is this chick in band class that I have to sit by every day, and I can't just sit by someone else because there are only three of us in our section(me, allie, and lexi, allie and lexi are friends so lexi usually takes her side), and I have to sit by allie who is such a prissy. She points out everything wrong I do, and sometimes even stuff that i didn't do, she does it just to be mean, and she just loves to ruin my day. I tried being nice to her but that lasted about two days, and now shes back to bla bla bla this bla bla bla that, and I wish shed just shut up. She told me I was a nobody and to stay out of her"Bubble"(I was like way further away from her than I was supposed to be!) Theres only 13 days of school left so I can't change my schedual, and my mom knows, one of the counselers know(because i tried to change my schedual), no ones helping me, what should I do?
What.Should.I.Do?
What.Should.I.Do?
29 Comments
I agree, but what I would do is that if she says something bit•chy, then look at her and say,
"Fvck off. I don't know what the he.ll your problem is, but stop taking it out on me.Go be bit*chy to someone else
PS: Message me if you want more help, that was my more direct way to take it
1. Stand up to her!
2. Kill her with kindness.
3. Ignore her. If she asks you something, don't answer. If she asks why your not talking to her, don't answer.
i like 2 and 3. but 3 wont work. so i think ill do 2. it will be sooo fuuuny!!!! and when she asks why im being so nice, Ill be like, "awwww sweetheart what are you talking about?"
If she's mean to you, ignore her. Just keep ignoring her until school ends. Another option is to give her a taste of her own medicine. If she's criticizing you for everything you do bad, whenever she did something bad, criticize her. If she fights back, sit back and let the teacher see what's happening. I guess it's kinda like blackmail.
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I used to have the same mean girl in my class. Always babbling about stuff i do wrong on accident and pointig out stuff I didn't do! I just stopped reacting to everything she said, and soon, she just got sick of it and stopped. Trust me I know it is REALLY Hard, but worth it! I hope that helps! :)
I tried not reacting but she kept going, thanks though
This might not work for everyone, because I'm one of those weirdly calm people who can ignore anything, but here's what I would do:
1. Ignore her.
2. Tell her to shut up and concentrate on what she's doing by saying "You could do to improve on it as much as I could. Or are you too busy criticizing me?"
3. Tell her she has no right to call you a nobody and she is wrong, then ignore whatever she says after that.
4. Tell her she's in your bubble.
5. Tell the teacher. If they don't do anything, that
is really stupid. They should be dealing with it.
i like 2
Just try and get through the rest of the year. It's almost over.
For now, just ignore her. Really, if she's that mean, you shouldn't even take what she says seriously. She doesn't deserve a reaction.
*Tell... Lexie... (Am I Right) to stop being her friend, and practice in band so yiou don't make mistakes. I f she makes the smallest mistake, point it out. Even if she doesn't, give her revenge. Show her what you feel!
Is mine helpful?
Just think why is she doing this? your not doing anything wrong shes just jealous!
Kill her with kindness
or give her a taste of her own medicine....both usually work....