Read if you want. I just need advice. No biggie.
Okay, so right now I'm really emotional. My friend is moving tomorrow. I feel like bursting out crying right now.
I know I've been strong for too long, but I don't want her to feel like I'm a crybaby/emotional chick. Today I went bowling with her and she kept calling be an idget. I know she was just joking around, but if those were our last words to each other, I'd die. I'm serious.
The reason I'm mentioning this is that I need a shoulder to cry on. I have some smaller friends, but they're not as easy to tell your secrets and they're even harder to cry on their shoulders. I need someone's shoulder to cry on.
Probably none of your virtual shoulders will help, but they might. I'm just so damn sad now, I'll take any shoulder I can trust.
What should I do to find other friends? I mean, I can still email and snail mail her, but I want some friends that I can talk to (like, in real life) and hang out. How can I? I've never really had to do this, make random friends. I've always been BFFs with her. Please help.
I know I've been strong for too long, but I don't want her to feel like I'm a crybaby/emotional chick. Today I went bowling with her and she kept calling be an idget. I know she was just joking around, but if those were our last words to each other, I'd die. I'm serious.
The reason I'm mentioning this is that I need a shoulder to cry on. I have some smaller friends, but they're not as easy to tell your secrets and they're even harder to cry on their shoulders. I need someone's shoulder to cry on.
Probably none of your virtual shoulders will help, but they might. I'm just so damn sad now, I'll take any shoulder I can trust.
What should I do to find other friends? I mean, I can still email and snail mail her, but I want some friends that I can talk to (like, in real life) and hang out. How can I? I've never really had to do this, make random friends. I've always been BFFs with her. Please help.
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Maybe you should try to get closer to some of the other friends you have?
i've recently gone through the same thing and it was really hard cause we've been really close friends for nearly 8 years, like you i had other friends but wasn't too close with any of them
but as we were all sad about my friend moving away we kinda grew closer through that and our friendship has gradually grown, i know it's hard, but you will make new friends!!! :)
Okay, thanks =)
I know how you feel!! I had a friend who moved all the way across the world,and I don't even get to talk to her really because she made new friends and forgot all about me!
Awh, I'm sorry. =(
That happened to me too. And she kept syaqing she was ognna move back. I here for ya bro D:
Try staying connected by being penpals, skype etc.
If you want more friends, try talking to the shy/new people at your school. Reaching out more to different people.
I did this, and that's how I found my best friend after I moved.
Okay, thanks for the advice.
I was friends, really good friends with a girl for a long time, then I moved. I didn't see her, except for once every 2 years. When I moved back, we barely spoke again...Listen, I know it hurts, but friends come and go. Even the ones you think are for forever. Hugs I'm sorry, and the first few months will hurt like hell, but then it'll be okay.
I hope so. =(
It will be :) And if you really do miss her, even after months, then you two could meet up in the vacation maybe!
That's a kind of good idea. Maybe...
I know, it can be so hard to make new friends when you've had 1 BFF for quite some time, i had to leave a best friend, because she was a yr below me and i had 2 make new friends, just, try saying hi to new ppl, and sit next to them in class, introduce your self, and hopefully it'll all work out, oh, and i'm so sorry about your problem, if you want to talk, just message me kk?
Kk
Try getting closer to some of your other friends... even though that may seem hard now. I know how it feels to have someone close to you leave.. it happened to me on New Year's... except they betrayed me... Anyway.... tell her what you feel... if she's been your friend this long she'll understand.. ^^
That must've really hurt. And okay, I'll tell her.
Look, EcoDude, it's okay.. I lost my friend when he moved... Try using phones.... I'm sorry, I'm not much help..
Actually that kind of did help. I'm sorry for your friend. I know her mom's cell phone number, so I might be able to call her...
Omg, I am srry!!! Message me if u wanna!!! :(
Okay...
Oh, Selena :(
It's okay, you'll get used to her not being there.
I hope so. =-/
Aw, i'm so sorry. :(