GIRLS PLEASE READ! I REALLY NEED YOUR ADVICE RIGHT NOW!
Girls I really need your advice right now! I have a tough decision!
Ok, so I have this best friend. His name is Jack. I have literally known him since the day he was born. I was 6 weeks old. We've been best friends our entire life. Completely insperable. Now we are both 14. We've both become hot.
Well, he has. I can't speak for myself because I'm not vain.
Recently, well in like the past two years, I have started developing feelings for him, like as more than a friend. I had always thought of him like a brother. But I just don't know what happened. The feelings just kept growing and growing.
And I seriously feel like I might even love him. I just don't know!
Like, I told my mom how I felt and she went on and on about how I don't even know what love is.
I felt like she was Jenny and I was Forrest Gump...
But, she also supports how I feel. So does Jack's older sister and his mom. He has also started acting differently around me. Since I've been around Jack for so long, I know how he acts around a girl he really likes. And he's started to act like that around me a little bit.
Especially last night! I went over to hang out with him last night at his house and I ended up sleeping over. That's nothing unusual.
But we were laying in his sisters bed while he and his little 6 year old cousin played video games. Then he would like randomly grab me and like hold me with his face buried into my side for like five minutes.
He's never ever done that before. And he did it like 16 times!
And he was playing with my hair all night! He knows that that is the most adorable thing to me! Like, I love when guys do that! I always tell him that. He braided my hair like 3 times! Then he literally begged me to sleep over! When I got permission, I asked Madison (his sister) if I could borrow some pajama pants, he was like "No!! Just wear my sweatpants!"
He LOVES his sweatpants. Don't ask me why, but he is obsessed with this certain pair of sweatpants. Also! He gave me his favorite hat because I tried it on and it apparently looked "funny" so that was weird...
And, I usually sleep on the couch when I come over, but he was like, just sleep in my bed, we can watch the olympics.
So, I agreed because his bed is really comfortable, and you know, I like him. So we were watching tv in the living room when only the two of us were still awake, and I was all like "I am soo hungry!" So he asked me what my favorite sandwich was, and I told him Peanut Butter and Jelly. He got up, went into the kitchen, and made me the sandwich with a freaking elaborate ice cream sundae! He has never ever made anything for me! I am always the one make sandwiches for him. So I ate it, and we went to sleep.
When I woke up in the morning, my back was facing him, that's the way I went to sleep, so I wasn't surprised. But his arms were like wrapped around me, pulling me really close to him. He doesn't move in his sleep. At all. He's like a rock. He did that intentionally. I'm sure of it.
I just don't know what to do. His sister keeps saying that she thinks he likes me too.
I don't know if I should say something to him, or wait for him to say something. I'm worried that if I say something and he doesn't feel the same way, our friendship won't be the same. But, like seriously, if you knew us, or saw us together once, you would know that we would be the most epic, perfect couple there has ever been.
Please tell me what you think I should do...
Well, he has. I can't speak for myself because I'm not vain.
Recently, well in like the past two years, I have started developing feelings for him, like as more than a friend. I had always thought of him like a brother. But I just don't know what happened. The feelings just kept growing and growing.
And I seriously feel like I might even love him. I just don't know!
Like, I told my mom how I felt and she went on and on about how I don't even know what love is.
I felt like she was Jenny and I was Forrest Gump...
But, she also supports how I feel. So does Jack's older sister and his mom. He has also started acting differently around me. Since I've been around Jack for so long, I know how he acts around a girl he really likes. And he's started to act like that around me a little bit.
Especially last night! I went over to hang out with him last night at his house and I ended up sleeping over. That's nothing unusual.
But we were laying in his sisters bed while he and his little 6 year old cousin played video games. Then he would like randomly grab me and like hold me with his face buried into my side for like five minutes.
He's never ever done that before. And he did it like 16 times!
And he was playing with my hair all night! He knows that that is the most adorable thing to me! Like, I love when guys do that! I always tell him that. He braided my hair like 3 times! Then he literally begged me to sleep over! When I got permission, I asked Madison (his sister) if I could borrow some pajama pants, he was like "No!! Just wear my sweatpants!"
He LOVES his sweatpants. Don't ask me why, but he is obsessed with this certain pair of sweatpants. Also! He gave me his favorite hat because I tried it on and it apparently looked "funny" so that was weird...
And, I usually sleep on the couch when I come over, but he was like, just sleep in my bed, we can watch the olympics.
So, I agreed because his bed is really comfortable, and you know, I like him. So we were watching tv in the living room when only the two of us were still awake, and I was all like "I am soo hungry!" So he asked me what my favorite sandwich was, and I told him Peanut Butter and Jelly. He got up, went into the kitchen, and made me the sandwich with a freaking elaborate ice cream sundae! He has never ever made anything for me! I am always the one make sandwiches for him. So I ate it, and we went to sleep.
When I woke up in the morning, my back was facing him, that's the way I went to sleep, so I wasn't surprised. But his arms were like wrapped around me, pulling me really close to him. He doesn't move in his sleep. At all. He's like a rock. He did that intentionally. I'm sure of it.
I just don't know what to do. His sister keeps saying that she thinks he likes me too.
I don't know if I should say something to him, or wait for him to say something. I'm worried that if I say something and he doesn't feel the same way, our friendship won't be the same. But, like seriously, if you knew us, or saw us together once, you would know that we would be the most epic, perfect couple there has ever been.
Please tell me what you think I should do...
27 Comments
You should wait a little longer... Make sure how you feel comes off in your actions and see if he responds to them... Idk, I'd give it more time
Yeah, I feel like I JUST started getting signals so I could just me misinterpreting them. I might wait until I see him again and see if he does that stuff again
ask his sister to dig around for some info if you really want to know, just ask her, hey do you think you could ask Jack if he likes me please. play it safe
yeahh thats actually a pretty good idea if I become more sure that he might actually like me, thanks(:
OMG that is so sweet! But you should maybe talk to his sister or something, just to know if he isnt playing around. But if you two do start dating, I love it when couples date so like tell me how it went and stuff (if you dont mind ^-^) Good luck to the both of you!
hahaha thanks(: and trust me! I will definitely let you know!
Aw, thats really cute.. yeah i understand how you feel i mean i have had the same situation, i had a boy bestfriend and we did everything together except sleepovers but i noticed how we started to act strange around eachother like we would seem to get a little nervous around eachother and we would be abit quieter than we usually are lol... but yeah atm we are still friends but ill make a move... but hey its up to u, follow ur heart but take ur brain with u;)))
Thank you! It's great to know I'm not the only one in thise situation! I love that saying!
Follow your heart and take your brain with you...
That's really clever!
Thank you! It's great to know I'm not the only one in thise situation! I love that saying!
Follow your heart and take your brain with you...
That's really clever!
Thank you! It's great to know I'm not the only one in thise situation! I love that saying!
Follow your heart and take your brain with you...
That's really clever!
It really does sound like he likes you! But I'm guessing you two are the very best of friends, and if you start a relationship with him now and it doesn't work out, you two may end up having an awkward friendship. If I were you, I'd wait and test my feelings, and when I was sure we both still liked each other, I'd talk to him about it. Best of luck, lass!
yeah that's exactly what I'm worried about! I don't want to ruin the amazing friendship that we have if we go out and break up! But the thing is, we're almost already like a couple except for kisses, and saying adorably mushy stuff... haha like I feel like we wouldn't break up
Then I think you should give it a shot. :) If you think it's worth it, risk it.
omg...i am dead set in the same position that you are in!!! me and my best friend are like that!! he is a major flirt though..i think you should jusst wait for a bit longer :) you two are probz soul mates?? i dont know but by the sounds of it i think that you two are meant for one another!!! :)
aww thanks(: yeah and at first I thought he was just being cheeky. But he's not like that at all!
DIS GUY TOATALLY LIKES YOU SWEETHART!!! lol i wish a guy was like that ovedr me, but my guy freinds, they would cuddle me olny if they're life depended on it... like my bff's hug me and such, guys r not into hugging... unless were talking about gay guys so then we'd be talking about 1 Direction.... anyways, wait just a tiny bit more, just wait. and the moment his lips come close to yours let him kiss then tell him how you feel. and if that takes forever to come, wait for more signbals. turn ur
Turn ur crush radar on, and wait wait for any moves of sudden action. lol the olny reason guy splay with my hair is because its the softest longest hair in the grade. i luv mah black emo hair :D but still, this guy this guy is pretty much saying : *** with me is my dream me and u lets have *** FVCK ME RIGHT HER RIGHT NOW!! XD okay so maybe a little bit exaderahted.... but still this guy likes u
Turn ur crush radar on, and wait wait for any moves of sudden action. lol the olny reason guy splay with my hair is because its the softest longest hair in the grade. i luv mah black emo hair :D but still, this guy this guy is pretty much saying : *** with me is my dream me and u lets have *** FVCK ME RIGHT HER RIGHT NOW!! XD okay so maybe a little bit exaderahted.... but still this guy likes u
hahahaha ohmygod... I was all like this is so sweet sounding... then you're all like FVCK ME RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW! haha omg made my day
Ask his sister to help you or talk to him
wow that is like the cutest thing ever! but i would defiantly not just come out and tell him yet, like you said, it might make the friendship awkward. Just play it out a little longer, wait to see how he acts around you again or like everyone else has said, just ask his sister to find out. But i have a feeling he likes you too!
okk, thanks(:
lol ur welcome for your day making. lol srry i made that comment twice :3
haha its all good! I do it all the time...