While My Guitar Gently Weeps: My tribute to my favorite musician ever :'(
I know his day of death isnt until next month, bu tI'm making a little tribute just to show my admiration and affection for this man and how much he's inspired me.
I just couldnt wait.
I'll be posting quotes about our sweet George on here almost every day.
At least I can get some of my sadnes out here. x(
10/21/11 Starting out with Olivia
In 2001, when it became evident that George was not going to live, a friend said to him, â€œthis will be the most exciting chapter of your life.â€ The usual dialogue surrounding a terminal illness is so grim that even the best platitudes fall flat; but at that moment, after all the negative medical certainties, those particular words were inspirational. After years of speculation about the moment of death, we knew the spectre of disembodiment was actually imminent.
â€œTo die will be an awfully big adventure,â€ wrote JM Barrie. In fact, death is such a big adventure it profoundly alters the lives of all those attached to the departing soul. When the time for George came, that momentarily open door to the infinite caught my sleeve then slammed shut, leaving behind the fabric of my being in jagged shreds.
Tragedy is much more of an adventure than joy. I am not saying joy is over-rated. But happiness is fleeting; it exists in the present. Tragedy casts a long and persistent shadow with the power to dim even the most perfect moment. It also has the potential to follow us to the end. We donâ€™t stop to analyze happiness but when grief and strife occur we recount the events leading up to it over and over. It wakes us from our sleep as we try to figure out how and where it all went wrong. Of course, with death, the question is more of a â€˜whyâ€™? But for me, the question was, â€œwhat is it I am meant to do now?â€ The script was changed, as George said when John Lennon was killed, â€œThatâ€™s not how the script goes. It was like someone tore out that page and stuck a new one in.â€ My movie changed too.
After George died, I was certain the usual tower of mail on the kitchen chair would dwindle, the house would be tidy and the sofas would seat people rather than guitars. None of that happened. In fact, it was quite the opposite.
Maybe it was the momentum of his hectic life, in addition to my need to keep busy, but my own life began to pick up speed. Thankfully George and I didnâ€™t spend much time looking back. I mean, we werenâ€™t making scrapbooks. We were steaming ahead. Thirty years of stuffing letters, tapes and film in drawers turned the house into one enormous discombobulated archive. Having an over-developed sense of duty, and the recent deep awareness of my own mortality, I began to organize the remnants and treasures of the life George lived. It seemed so unfair to leave this task to my son and it was important to me that things be in order. It was also an obvious way of staying close to life as I knew it, not being ready to â€˜move onâ€™ â€” as they say, a term I have come to detest.
Half way through the treasure hunt it became even more obvious how rich a life George led. From the bin bag of reel-to-reel tapes I listened to George working out his first song, â€œDonâ€™t Bother Meâ€ and Ravi Shankar giving George his first sitar lesson in 1966.
There were traces of him everywhere; chord sequences and tablatures written out, notes and silly drawings but also deeper reminders, one written on a scrap from the Bel-Air Hotel, â€œWhen you strip it all away, there is only Godâ€.
And I have been stripping it away, from the past, as well as streamlining the present. Isnâ€™t it what we of a certain age all desire now? To simplify our lives, to get rid of some of the â€˜stuffâ€™ we worked so hard to accumulate so we donâ€™t spend the rest of our lives as slaves to our material world? Through work and the process of producing this film I have discovered new skills, broader perspectives, new interests and above all, I cemented old friendships while nurturing new ones. I worked hard at it all and the results pulled me out from under the cool shadow of sadness. I admit I have had a pretty amazing ten years. It goes without saying, but Iâ€™ll say it anyway, that not in a million years would I have made that trade. I have to thank George for my life with him and oddly enough, for with my life without him.